I Cannot Remember My Mother

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Reflect and Respond

I. Discussion

  • Childhood memories: I fondly remember playing in the garden after rain, the aroma of homemade sweets during festivals, reading storybooks on quiet afternoons, and learning to ride a bicycle with my parents.

  • Mother-Child Relationship: A mother provides warmth, safety, and comfort from an early age. Her presence, voice, and touch build strong emotional bonds that remain deeply embedded in a child's subconscious mind, shaping their feelings, memories, and sense of security throughout life.

II. Vocabulary Matching

Column 1Column 2

1. hover

(v) linger or remain near a place

2. hum

(i) sing a tune with your lips closed

3. cradle

(vi) a small bed for a baby

4. shiuli

(ii) a type of flower (coral jasmine)

5. morning service

(iv) rituals conducted in a temple

6. gaze

(iii) look steadily for a long time

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Check Your Understanding

I. Fill in the Blanks

  • Stanza 1:

    1. The poet remembers his mother while he plays with his playthings.

    2. The poet remembers the tune of a song but not the mother herself.

    • Setting: indoor

  • Stanza 2:

    1. The poet remembers his mother in the early autumn season.

    2. The poet remembers his mother by the smell of shiuli flowers and the scent of the morning service in the temple.

    • Setting: indoor / outdoor


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  • Stanza 3:

    1. The poet feels that his mother gazes at him from the blue of the distant sky.

    • Setting: indoor (viewing outdoors through a bedroom window)

II. Sensory References Table

StanzaLines from the PoemSenses

1

...the tune of some song that she used to hum while rocking my cradle

auditory

2

...the smell of the shiuli flowers floats in the air, the scent of the morning service in the temple comes to me as the scent of my mother

olfactory

3

...from my bedroom window I send my eyes into the blue of the distant sky, I feel that the stillness of my mother's gaze...

visual

III. Poetic Analysis Questions

  1. Examples of Alliteration:

    • (i) "playthings, the tune" / "song that she"

    • (ii) "stillness of my mother's gaze" / "send my eyes"

  2. Example of Onomatopoeia:

    • "hum"

  3. Explanation of Imagery:

    • The poet uses vivid auditory (a humming tune), olfactory (fragrance of shiuli blossoms and incense), and visual (endless blue sky) descriptions that bring abstract childhood memories to life through physical senses.

  4. Why the poem is enjoyable without a rhyme scheme:

    • Its gentle rhythm, deeply personal sentiment, rich sensory imagery, and musical flow create an authentic emotional resonance that does not depend on strict rhyming patterns.

  5. Speaker's Tone:

    • Nostalgic, gentle, and tender. The poet tenderly recalls subtle sensory traces left behind by his mother rather than expressing sharp, dramatic grief.

  6. Impact of the Title:

    • The title sets a somber, melancholic, yet reflective mood from the very start, highlighting the physical absence of his mother while contrasting it with her lingering spirit.

  7. Use of 'I cannot remember my mother' as a refrain:

    • It underscores the irony that despite not having a clear visual image of his mother, her presence is deeply felt all around him through sensory cues.

  8. Symbolism in the Poem:

    • Shiuli flowers & Temple incense: Symbolise purity, maternal love, and sacred devotion.

    • Humming tune: Symbolises comfort, protection, and early childhood care.

    • Distant blue sky: Symbolises the eternal, all-encompassing, and protective gaze of the mother.


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Critical Reflection

1. Extract: "I cannot remember my mother..."

  • (i) The poet is reminded of his mother during his playtime.

  • (ii) C. It activates memories of the mother.

  • (iii) The hovering tune acts as an emotional trigger that connects the speaker directly to his early infant years when his mother sang to him.

  • (iv) True (The poet states: "only sometimes in the midst of my play").

  • (v) The poet feels her presence through deep subconscious associations—sounds, fragrances, and peaceful natural settings keep her memory alive in his heart.

2. Extract: "I feel that the stillness of..."

  • (i) B. The sky is a symbolic extension of the mother's presence.

  • (ii) D. a sense of serenity

  • (iii) False (It is a spiritual, emotional feeling rather than a physical effect).


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  • (iv) Comparing her gaze to the vast sky highlights that her love and care remain infinite, silent, and all-encompassing.

  • (v) The tone of the poet in the given extract is peaceful and reflective because he finds comfort in feeling his mother's silent gaze looking down upon him from above.

II. Short Answer Questions

  1. Emotional impact of the refrain:

    • It anchors the poem in poignant nostalgia, constantly reminding the reader of the loss while highlighting how love transcends memory.

  2. Interpretation of connections:

    • (i) Shiuli flowers: Associated with morning temple prayers, their sweet fragrance evokes the sacred and nurturing aura of his mother.

    • (ii) Humming tune: Represents her gentle affection and cradling comfort during early infancy.

  3. Role of Nature:

    • Nature acts as a living canvas through which the mother's presence is felt. Air, fragrance, and the sky become physical manifestations of her love.

  4. Inference on the mother-child relationship:

    • The bond between mother and child is immortal and spiritual; even if physical memories fade, maternal love remains permanently etched in a child's soul.

Vocabulary in Context

I. Sensory Words Classification Table

VisualAuditoryOlfactoryTactile

glowing

hiss

aroma

sticky

gigantic

rustle

stale

rough

gloomy

sizzle

scent

chilled

vibrant

deafening

pungent

minuscule

crimson

squeaky

stinky

fluffy

ear-splitting

fragrant

hairy

smooth

slimy


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II. Passage Completion

  1. scarlet

  2. sweetness

  3. scents

  4. flaming

  5. perfumes

  6. essence

  7. smooth

(Extra words unused: shrill, sizzle)

III. Image Matching with Phrases

  • Hands picking white flowers: 3. Fragrant breeze of blooming buds / 2. Melody of soothing scent, dancing in the air

  • Mother at baby cradle: 4. Gentle lullaby, a soft melody

  • Kites in the sky: 5. Colourful sky, painting a lively sight

  • Sunset over river: 6. Attractive canvas painting the horizon

  • Tabla drums: 1. Beats of music echo in air

  • Incense sticks burning: 2. Melody of soothing scent, dancing in the air


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Listen and Respond

I. Speaker Matching

  • Speaker (i): Statement 4 (Childhood days are about freedom and ordinary pleasures in outdoor activities)

  • Speaker (ii): Statement 2 (My grandfather's encouragement influences me in moments of difficulty)

  • Speaker (iii): Statement 1 (The precious memories by the seaside are not the same anymore)

  • Speaker (iv): Statement 3 (The school days are a source of recollection to stay in touch)

(Unused Statements: 5, 6)


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Speaking Activity

Sample Monologue:

"During my childhood, my grandfather gave me a small wooden fountain pen. Growing up, I fondly remember how he polished it every Sunday morning. Recalling those early years, I can't forget the crisp, dark blue ink and the distinct wooden smell of his study desk. In my younger days, I used to practice calligraphy with it for hours.

I have a clear memory of writing my very first short story using that pen. That simple wooden pen taught me patience and inspired my passion for creative writing. Thinking about my early years, I recall how proud my grandfather looked when I filled my notebook. It remains meaningful to me today because it keeps his encouraging words alive in my heart."


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Writing Task: Diary Entry

Wednesday, 12th August 2026

8:30 PM

Dear Diary,

Today was arguably the most breathtaking day of our school trip to Munnar. Standing atop the misty tea garden hill at sunrise, I was surrounded by a cool, fresh mountain breeze that smelled of damp earth and crushed tea leaves.

The view was stunning—rolling emerald hills stretched endlessly under a pastel pink sky. As the sun rose higher, the gentle rustle of leaves and the melodious chirping of morning birds filled the air. Taking a sip of hot cardamom tea while looking at the endless green landscape made me feel completely at peace.

It was an unforgettable sensory experience that brought me closer to nature. Moments like these remind me how vibrant and beautiful our world truly is.


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Learning Beyond the Text

I. Information on Unique Indian Flowers

  • Neelakurinji (Kurinji):

    • Location: Western Ghats (Nilgiri Hills, Kerala, Tamil Nadu).

    • Appearance: Bright purple-blue bell-shaped flowers.

    • Fragrance: Subtle, sweet natural floral scent.

    • Significance: Blooms once every 12 years; gives the 'Nilgiri' (Blue Mountains) their name.

  • Brahma Kamal:

    • Location: High-altitude Himalayan regions (Uttarakhand).

    • Appearance: Large star-like white petals surrounding a golden center.

    • Fragrance: Powerful, orchid-like scent.

    • Significance: Night-blooming flower revered in Hindu traditions, associated with Lord Brahma.

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